March already.. still praying for the miracles, God. 

Thank you for all the blessings that you have showered upon me.

May may more to come in future.

Ameen..

XOXO,
 

HOPE

Dear God,

I have so many dreams & plans.. Please make them come true.
Ameen.


XOXO,

32 Life Lessons in a Nutshell

1. If people want to be with you, they will find a way. Seek, but don’t chase.
2. Have some self-respect; don’t allow abuse or disrespect.
3. Spend time with happiness givers not happiness suckers.
4. Feel the fear and do it anyway. 
5. Stay truthful and out of denial.
6. Be present, stay present and let it all sink in. Awareness is key.
7. Your needs have value; don’t ignore them.
8. Achieving dreams requires action. Take steps towards your goals.
9. The only person you can be is yourself; stop trying to be anything but you.
10. You are not your past. Let it go.
11. Forgive yourself.
12. Mistakes are not bad; they are valuable because of what they teach us.
13. Doing something is better than not doing something.
14. Trying has a higher probability of resulting in success than quitting or not trying.
15. Be grateful; believe it or not you have many gifts and have received many gifts.
16. Be responsible; things happen and you control your response and attitude. You have that power.
17. You always have a choice; choose wisely
18. Love is all around when you choose to see it.
19. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
20. Seize opportunity.
21. Look for the positive in every situation, event and person; it’s there.
22. The only person you need to impress is yourself; stop comparing yourself to others or competing with them.
23. Give, don’t take.
24. Hating someone only hurts you.
25. Don’t debate; everyone is entitled to their viewpoint.
26. Challenge yourself; this is how you grow and get better.
27. What’s important is what YOU think/believe, not what others think/believe.
28. Focus on what you want and you will create it and/or find it.
29. Have an open mind. Anything is possible.
30. Practice Kindness. It’s a great religion
31. Right and wrong is a matter of perspective. Be tolerant of differences.
32. Always remember that your future has not yet been written. Write a great one.


XOXO,

15 THINGS TO GIVE UP...

1. GIVE UP MY NEED TO ALWAYS BE RIGHT

2. GIVE UP MY NEED FOR CONTROL

3. GIVE UP ON BLAME

4. GIVE UP MY SELF-DEFEATING SELF-TALK

5. GIVE UP MY LIMITING BELIEFS

6. GIVE UP COMPLAINING

7. GIVE UP THE LUXURY OF CRITICISM

8. GIVE UP MY NEED TO IMPRESS OTHERS

9. GIVE UP MY RESISTANCE TO CHANGE

10. GIVE UP LABELS

11. GIVE UP ON MY FEARS

12. GIVE UP MY EXCUSES

13. GIVE UP THE PAST

14. GIVE UP ATTACHMENT

15. GIVE UP LIVING MY LIFE TO OTHER PEOPLE’S EXPECTATIONS

1. GIVE UP YOUR NEED TO ALWAYS BE RIGHT

There are so many of us who can’t stand the idea of being wrong – wanting to always be right – even at the risk of ending great relationships or causing a great deal of stress and pain, for us and for others. It’s just not worth it. Whenever you feel the ‘urgent’ need to jump into a fight over who is right and who is wrong, ask yourself this question: “Would I rather be right, or would I rather be kind?” Wayne Dyer. What difference will that make? Is your ego really that big?

2. GIVE UP YOUR NEED FOR CONTROL

Be willing to give up your need to always control everything that happens to you and around you – situations, events, people, etc. Whether they are loved ones, coworkers, or just strangers you meet on the street – just allow them to be. Allow everything and everyone to be just as they are and you will see how much better will that make you feel.

“By letting it go it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond winning.” Lao Tzu

3. GIVE UP ON BLAME

Give up on your need to blame others for what you have or don’t have, for what you feel or don’t feel. Stop giving your powers away and start taking responsibility for your life.

4. GIVE UP YOUR SELF-DEFEATING SELF-TALK

Oh my. How many people are hurting themselves because of their negative, polluted and repetitive self-defeating mindset? Don’t believe everything that your mind is telling you – especially if it’s negative and self-defeating. You are better than that.

“The mind is a superb instrument if used rightly. Used wrongly, however, it becomes very destructive.” Eckhart Tolle

5. GIVE UP YOUR LIMITING BELIEFS

about what you can or cannot do, about what is possible or impossible. From now on, you are no longer going to allow your limiting beliefs to keep you stuck in the wrong place. Spread your wings and fly!

“A belief is not an idea held by the mind, it is an idea that holds the mind” Elly Roselle

6. GIVE UP COMPLAINING

Give up your constant need to complain about those many, many, maaany things – people, situations, events that make you unhappy, sad and depressed. Nobody can make you unhappy, no situation can make you sad or miserable unless you allow it to. It’s not the situation that triggers those feelings in you, but how you choose to look at it. Never underestimate the power of positive thinking.

7. GIVE UP THE LUXURY OF CRITICISM

Give up your need to criticize things, events or people that are different than you. We are all different, yet we are all the same. We all want to be happy, we all want to love and be loved and we all want to be understood. We all want something, and something is wished by us all.

8. GIVE UP YOUR NEED TO IMPRESS OTHERS

Stop trying so hard to be something that you’re not just to make others like you. It doesn’t work this way. The moment you stop trying so hard to be something that you’re not, the moment you take off all your masks, the moment you accept and embrace the real you, you will find people will be drawn to you, effortlessly.

9. GIVE UP YOUR RESISTANCE TO CHANGE

Change is good. Change will help you move from A to B. Change will help you make improvements in your life and also the lives of those around you. Follow your bliss, embrace change – don’t resist it.

“Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors for you where there were only walls” Joseph Campbell

10. GIVE UP LABELS

Stop labeling those things, people or events that you don’t understand as being weird or different and try opening your mind, little by little. Minds only work when open. “The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don’t know anything about.” Wayne Dyer

11. GIVE UP ON YOUR FEARS

Fear is just an illusion, it doesn’t exist – you created it. It’s all in your mind. Correct the inside and the outside will fall into place.

“The only thing we have to fear, is fear itself.” Franklin D. Roosevelt

12. GIVE UP YOUR EXCUSES

Send them packing and tell them they’re fired. You no longer need them. A lot of times we limit ourselves because of the many excuses we use. Instead of growing and working on improving ourselves and our lives, we get stuck, lying to ourselves, using all kind of excuses – excuses that 99.9% of the time are not even real.

13. GIVE UP THE PAST

I know, I know. It’s hard. Especially when the past looks so much better than the present and the future looks so frightening, but you have to take into consideration the fact that the present moment is all you have and all you will ever have. The past you are now longing for – the past that you are now dreaming about – was ignored by you when it was present. Stop deluding yourself. Be present in everything you do and enjoy life. After all life is a journey not a destination. Have a clear vision for the future, prepare yourself, but always be present in the now.

14. GIVE UP ATTACHMENT

This is a concept that, for most of us is so hard to grasp and I have to tell you that it was for me too, (it still is) but it’s not something impossible. You get better and better at with time and practice. The moment you detach yourself from all things, (and that doesn’t mean you give up your love for them – because love and attachment have nothing to do with one another, attachment comes from a place of fear, while love… well, real love is pure, kind, and self less, where there is love there can’t be fear, and because of that, attachment and love cannot coexist) you become so peaceful, so tolerant, so kind, and so serene. You will get to a place where you will be able to understand all things without even trying. A state beyond words.

15. GIVE UP LIVING YOUR LIFE TO OTHER PEOPLE’S EXPECTATIONS

Way too many people are living a life that is not theirs to live. They live their lives according to what others think is best for them, they live their lives according to what their parents think is best for them, to what their friends, their enemies and their teachers, their government and the media think is best for them. They ignore their inner voice, that inner calling. They are so busy with pleasing everybody, with living up to other people’s expectations, that they lose control over their lives. They forget what makes them happy, what they want, what they need….and eventually they forget about themselves. You have one life – this one right now – you must live it, own it, and especially don’t let other people’s opinions distract you from your path.

-Positivity-

XOXO,

Merit Increase, Bonus and Redesignate

8th Feb 2013

Syukur..
Thank you God for all the blessings..

Received a very good news today!! Happyyy yg amat!!

 See.. what my fortune cookies says.. ( ya I know.. coincidence je..still..it's a sign!)

This is the prove of the good news!!!! (wink wink)

May there be more and better in future..

Thank you God..

XOXO,

2/2 | 2nd February | 2.2

2/2..

Proves that it's the 11th years of we knowing each other..

This year, we have better plans to step into a new phase of our life ;-)
May our plan be blessed by the almighty, Ameen..

XOXO,

31.1.13

2013 Handbook

Health:

1. Drink plenty of water.

2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.

3. Eat more plants and foods that grow on trees and eat less food that is manufactured.

4. Live with Energy, Enthusiasm and Empathy 

5. Make time to pray.

6. Play more.

7. Read more.

8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day

9. Sleep for 7 hours.

10. Take a 10-30 minute walk daily and smile while you walk.

Personality:

11. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

12. Don't have negative thoughts or judgments. Instead invest your energy in seeing the positive present moment.

13. Let go of things you cannot change.

14. Try new things. Don't overdo. Accept your limits.

15. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

16. Don't waste your energy on gossip.

17. Dream more

18. Envy is a waste of time. Be grateful for all that you have.

19. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.

20. Don’t hate others. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

21. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.

22. Remember that you are the only one in charge of your happiness.

23. Realize that life is a school filled with teachers and you are here to learn its many lessons. Problems you experience are simply part of the curriculum. The lessons will repeat until you learn them but once learned, they will last a lifetime.

24. Smile and laugh more.

25. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Society:

26. Call your family often.

27. Give something good to others every day.

28. Forgive everyone for everything

29. Spend time with people over the age of 70 and under the age of 6.

30. Listen to people with all of your attention. Be present 100%

31. Try to make at least three people smile each day.

32. What other people think of you is none of your business.

33. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Keep in touch with your friends more often.

Life:

34. Do the right thing!

35. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

36. Time heals all wounds.

37. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

38. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

39. Do your best.

40. Life is a gift. Express gratitude and be thankful.

41. Be happy.

XOXO,